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im 18 years old livin in Alice Springs in the middle of australia.theres Girl Im crazy about for years now, she knows doent were just friends, she stoped coming to my school now about 2 years and I rarely see around the city and want to work now.i ask him out but I do not know if I have, shes beautiful eyes my heart beat a little faster than normal, shes always happy and positive enerjetic and one of the few girls who have never really talked letalone friends with me. And me .. I like to think im a nice guy who is easy going Allong with most people I get Allong with almost everyone, I listen to metal, watching Discovery Channel and allot UFC, im a little weird Never had girlfreind, i get allot depressed, out of nowhere to resonate Im not sure of calm, im really have always been great, even in elementary school, but I was a pariah I teased and picked on and began to laugh at times, you can buy people who thought i were my two best friends, which I think added to my insecutitys I have now, I feel like Im not wanted, even if I am, and that People are alway fun of me behind my back, im over weight if I can still play sports and im not stupid but I do take my shirt off when I swim.
How could I ask her if she wants to go out with me? do I? I do not think I could handle being rejected above all else, but I can not bear to be everyone has someone else allonewhile.

Has anyone had a suggestion?

well first of all you must believe ............ u sound like a guy would ask her first big u want to go out sometimes ?...... not tell him a date .... u do not want her to feel uncomfortable .. e just talk to him and explain your feelings about her ........... and not insecure

I hoped that this assistance

first say how it works, so that u are going out with someone just to make things happen.

If she says no to your moving ask him out

and only if things get akward talk about school or something so that it can u forget nothing to lose and stop thinkin to mybe she fell in the same way.

Figure you will not ask him out once, because if you ask her and she said no, she certainly will not tell you if you ask a second time. For a few months of your free time doing things like jumping rope, biking or walking to a party in your neighborhood you have not seen before, take courses to meet new people, etc. Your goal is increase your fitness and confidence level. Tell yourself it's for two reasons: to improve yourself, and also to give you a better chance of it. In this way, even if you're rejected, you will not regret it. Also, you may want to do something like reading a good book (eg a biography of Frank Zappa) struck her on AIM and talk, without asking her OUT. Maybe talk to him intermittently for some time about interesting topics. It is easy to impress women over instant messaging because you can think more about what you say and seem more clever.

Short answer: spend a few months so you better make you more attractive and interesting conversation with this girl. Once you've seen a marked improvement, ask him.

Note: I am not saying it did not go out with you if you asked him today. I think you would have good chances with her, as it is. But as I said, you do not want to ask a second time. And what kind of things will be a good way to get more from your experience in high school terrible anyway. The adult world is not like high school. It is much cooler. Taking a class with adults in something that interests you probably be a great way to discover that. (Best results if the adults are ages 20-40, and the class is a sort of community education in music, pottery, etc.)
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