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Choose Your perception of your reality create
Perception is reality. You have the power to choose your perception, so the choice of your reality.

There is a quote from Dr. Wayne Dyer that says - "When you change your way of seeing things, the things you look at change.". This quote is a good basis for what you'll discover in this article.

Whatever you focus on expansion. If you meet someone and decide to focus on their negative qualities, or unattractive, then you start noticing more and more negative and unattractive qualities. However, if you meet someone and choose to focus on their positive qualities and attractive you will see more of their attractive qualities, and they will suddenly become a very interesting person for you.

It is our choice how we choose to see and perceive things. We still have the chance to choose how we see a person, place or situation. Our perception determines our experience.

Life is a question of perception. If you look at a homeless person, for example, and you say, "It's disgusting," "he / she is so dirty," why not get a job like everyone else, "What is a loser ", etc. .......

Then you will see a dirty disgusting person who is below you.

If you look at that same homeless person, and you say, "I send the person you love," "I pray they find food today," I wonder what the situation occurred in their lives to save them, "How can I serve that person," "I admire their calm," "I respect their humanity," "I am one with their spirit," etc. .....

Then all of a sudden they are completely different from you.You see their inner beauty, you respect them as your brother / sister, you see their humanity, you feel empathy and compassion, you see this beautiful soul as one with yourself.

When you change your way of looking at people, places or circumstances in your life, they will change. You have the power to choose to see through the eyes of anger and fear, or through the eyes of compassion and love.

It's the same thing if you're in a relationship. What often happens again, is after two people were in a long relationship, one or two of those involved will begin begin to notice some of the qualities in the person of others, they are boring or frustrating. As they point out that few, they begin to notice more, then those qualities seem to grow and become highly exaggerated. Now the person suddenly seems to be totally unacceptable and unattractive and very often, they stay together, miserable and unhappy, or the relationship ends.

If you look at the beginning of most romantic relationships, the opposite. The two people are in relationship to account for what they like about the other person, the more they focus on the positive and attractive qualities, the more they notice, then those qualities seem to grow and be overstated. They then fall in love, and think the other person is the most amazing person on earth, because they chose to focus on the positive qualities of the other person.

We can always make the choice to focus on the positive attributes of another person. If you've been in a relationship for a very long time and you begin to notice yourself focusing on the qualities that frustrate or annoy you, you catch up and make a different choice to focus on what you like about them and their qualities and attributes. Whatever you focus on expansion.

We have seen several times where two brothers and sisters who are near the same age, both growing up in a violent environment. Each sibling will grow up to be completely opposite, a child will grow up to be a very hectic life and the others will grow up to be a very happy and successful life. Each brother and sister in this situation, had very different results because they.